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Saturday, December 18, 2010

LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT ..... IS IT A REALITY ?????




Their eyes met ,the eyes got locked, Time seemed to come to a standstill ,Background music starts playing next Dance sequence to enhance the viewers mood.... lol lol .... This just sounds comical but this magical first look and falling in love at first sight has been a staple of many romantic novels and movies…Yes this is what people call it the so called “ Love At First Sight ”
            
              Well I’m not a big fan of the myth “ love at first sight ”... I do not believe in it because to love a person you have to get to know them first and build the relation brick by brick but love at first sight is just a lust or infatuation of god’s creation of beauty which creates a adrenaline rush in our body and makes a momentous shift towards loom, basically it is a obsession with someone’s look and you fall in love with someone because of how they look or a first impression, and not because you get to know them and their personality
                    
                    Boys who fall in love madly at first contact -- tend to firmly believe in love at first sight. The problem is that they believe in it so much that every girl they frequent look becomes the " love of their life " I'm not saying that they have a false sense of what love is, but they do have a blurred sense of what instantaneous true love represents. Above that, many become blind and only take the sexy curves and crystal eyes into account, forgetting that she can turn out to be a jealous gal or vengeful vixen, or both. Whereas girls tend to fall in love more easily while in a relationship, and are quicker to commit to their men. Although women will be wary in the early stages, they will eventually open up to falling in love and commit with much more anticipation. 
          Since love is supposed to be the deepest connection between two people, but how can you possibly just LOOK at someone and KNOW they’re the right one for you? 

Answer: you can’t. 

            The media is the reason which plays on people’s desperate desires. I will definitely admit that the media over exaggerates “ love at first sight ” and that it does have a negative effect on what people’s definition of “ love ” is. The love portrayed by the media most often is in all actuality, nothing but lust especially which is visible in many Tamil and Hindi movies and ofcourse you can’t count out the hilarious Telugu movies 
                      Now I am definitely not saying love at first sight doesn’t exist, because by saying that I would be overestimating my intelligence by assuming that I have knowledge of every single relationship that has ever graced the face of the earth. I do believe though that what the media often calls love, is in fact infatuation. If they wanted to accurately portray love at first sight they would have to continue following the couple into the years where the real intimacy of the relationship flourishes. According to me the kind of love that does last is the TRUE love, is when you really know a person and love them for who they are, instead of creating a perfect boyfriend or girlfriend around what they look like when you first lay eyes on them.

My Conclusion

Hence having a crush on, being attracted to, and falling in love with somebody of how they look on a first impression is just an EYE WASH & are very different things compared to TRUE LOVE.



Article by ASHWIN KARTHIKEYAN
Posted by RiskMeister at 7:04 AM

13 comments:

  1. AnonymousDecember 18, 2010 at 7:23 AM

    good one mate!! i agree with you!!

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  2. ASHDecember 18, 2010 at 7:26 AM

    thanks mate !! ur name ?

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  3. nandhiniDecember 18, 2010 at 7:36 AM

    wow... classic da ash !!

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  4. viniishaaDecember 18, 2010 at 7:47 AM

    i agree too..!!its luvly..:)

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  5. RyacetDecember 18, 2010 at 8:06 AM

    An article to read and think about ...

    friends.. next time u see someone attractive , switch the glowing bulb off and think for a min...

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  6. nivethaDecember 18, 2010 at 8:10 AM

    true statement...!!!...espeacially wid the media one.....!!.. :)..well said..!

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  7. ASHDecember 18, 2010 at 8:16 AM

    thanks nive !!

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  8. UnknownDecember 18, 2010 at 8:35 AM

    obviously its lust

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  9. UnknownDecember 18, 2010 at 8:56 AM

    pyaar kya hota hai ... lol.. ( remember this dialogue wich comes in kuch kuch hota hia ? ;) )

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  10. shivaDecember 18, 2010 at 10:04 AM

    hey i just like the opening of ur article.... good one pozac !!

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  11. SriramDecember 18, 2010 at 7:30 PM

    its gud.. but u could even written more wat u mean by true love..

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  12. ASHDecember 18, 2010 at 10:03 PM

    every person has his own definition of true love is...sp couldn emphasis on it .. will do next time !! any way thanks.. !! :)

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  13. pavithraDecember 19, 2010 at 11:50 AM

    naicee !!

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